"Most of us are bad girls in our dreams. But there's a pattern in the bad-girl lifestyle that deserves contemplation. Bad girls buy what they want to buy, eat what they want to eat, wear what they want to wear, sleep when they want to sleep. Bad girls don't have therapists because they don't need them. Instead, bad girls have housekeepers and masseuses.
The thing about bad girls is that they know what they want and how to get it. They make their own rules, their way and don't owe anyone any apologies. They make it happen.
She's attitude in overdrive, coast-to-coast confidence and fast forward fun. She's your boldest dreams and your inner wild. A bad girl is you at your best - whoever you are, whatever your style. Bad girls are passionate about what they want.
Great women throughout history were 'bad girls'. They were dreamers, risk-takers and visionaries who defied the norms of their lives. They didn't conform and they didn't take no for an answer. They weren't afraid to break rules or scare the hell out of men to get what they wanted. You don't have to change the world to find your badness. But you'll definitely change yours.
When a good woman tries to completely snuff out the spark of wildness that nature gave her to keep her alive, she ends up 'dead' in some sense, whether it's through chronic depression, debilitating illness, addiction or driving off a cliff. A woman shouldn't have to be diagnosed with cancer to finally take up mountain climbing or landscape design. Granted it's a big transition from the 'me too' mindset to 'me first' , but sometimes the orchestra has been playing out tune for long, we can no longer hear it pr we're afraid to want to.
Don't be afraid to go after what you want. Don't be afraid to want, to yearn, crave or lust for something. If you can't satisfy yourself, how can you expect anyone else to satisfy you?? Or to satisfy anyone else?
There are no good girls gone bad, just bad girls found out.
It's so easy to be wicked without knowing it, isn't it??"
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