Friday, March 6, 2009

Some friendships go beyond everything else.


When I was a kid, or even a teen, I used to wonder why kids make up 'imaginary friends'. Someone only they can see, only they can talk to. Someone who understands them, is always with them. someone who's fun to be with, who tells them when they're wrong, yet, an ally it comes to mischief. A friend that loves them unconditionally, and more than anyone else in the world. Someone they can count on for love and support.

I used to think it's simply because it's tough to find a real person like that in the world. That it's too ideal to happen. That it's just a childish fantasy. I mean, come on! after all, who can see these 'imaginary friends' anyway?? Kidd-ish no?


I'm starting to think that the concept is not as childish as it may seem. In fact, it's the most real and sane way for an adult to live a happy life. Imagine if there was someone like that in your life. Wouldn't you smile each moment?? Blossom out into the individual you should be. .. you want to be??

It's the ideal case scenario. The perfect relationship. Someone who can look into your deepest thoughts, and make you feel safe. . . mehfoos.

So what stops you? Do you think you can be that kind of a friend? Do you think that you could love someone unconditionally and till the end of time? Be a source of everlasting support and love? And fun?? Do you think that you could be that kind of an 'imaginary friend' to anyone?

Could you become that special for anyone? How about for yourself? Can you instill the faith within you that you will love yourself no matter what?

Give yourself the sense of security and love you deserve. Imaginary friends exist, right in your heart. It's about time you gave them the space to love you and cherish you for the wonderful individual that you are. Until today, you may have searched for a special someone, or a friend somewhere else. For once, just for once, give yourself the chance to be that special someone for yourself. Give yourself the chance to love you and be your best friend.

Imagination isn't about what's real and what's not. What is real anyway?? It's all in the mind. If you believe it to be real, then it IS real!

Some friendships go beyond the usual. Beyond even the realm of having another person there. Imaginary friends are like 'maaya'. They almosttt exist!

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